Family Mediation for Divorce and Separation

Family Mediation is a supportive, structured process where an independent family mediator supports separating couples work through arrangements for children, finances and their whole separation – without going to court.

Family mediation offers a constructive way to navigate separation or divorce when emotions are high and communication feels difficult. With the support of an experienced, independent family mediator, you can explore your options, talk through important issues, and work towards practical agreements that work for everyone involved, including your children.

Rather than handing decisions over to a court, mediation keeps you at the centre of the process, moving forward at a pace that feels manageable.

Ready to Move Forward?  Click the button below to complete our participant questionnaire.  We will then be in touch to arrange your MIAM.

Mediation usually begins with a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) – an individual, confidential meeting to explore your options and assess whether mediation is suitable.

With the support of a trained, neutral mediator, you can find practical, fair and lasting solutions together, and at your own pace.

Divorce and separation can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be filled with conflict.

What Can Family Mediation Help With?

How Family Mediation is Different From Court

A Guided Step-by-Step Approach

When a relationship breaks down, it can be hard to know where to turn or what to do next. Many people feel torn between wanting things resolved quickly and wanting outcomes that feel fair and manageable for the long term.

Others with good intentions can make everything even more confusing, and there is so much information out there, much of it conflicting.

Family mediation offers a supportive way forward, particularly for those who want to avoid the stress, cost and uncertainty of court where possible.  Court is always going to be there so why not consider something else first?

​Reduce Stress and Overwhelm

Family mediation for divorce offers a supportive, step-by-step process guided by a neutral professional.

You’ll feel heard and supported, making a difficult transition more manageable and less intimidating.

When Mediation May Not Be Suitable

• there are serious safety concerns

• one person is unwilling or unable to engage in the process

• urgent court intervention is required

This is why mediation usually begins with a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) – an individual, confidential meeting that helps explore your circumstances and assess whether mediation is suitable.

The MIAM is not about pushing you into mediation. It’s about giving you space to:

• talk through your situation confidentially

• understand your options clearly

• decide what feels right for you

If mediation isn’t suitable, you’ll be guided on alternative next steps.

​Mediation May Be Suitable If:

• You want to avoid court where possible

• You have children and want to prioritise their wellbeing

• You need help working through financial or property decisions

• Communication has broken down or feels difficult

• You feel overwhelmed and don’t know where to start

• You want a structured way to move forward for all of you

If mediation is appropriate and you both wish to proceed, joint sessions are arranged.

These sessions provide a structured space to:

• identify the issues that need to be resolved

• discuss children’s arrangements

• work through financial and practical matters

• explore options and possible outcomes

• decide priorities

You don’t need to agree in advance. The mediator supports conversations, keeps discussions focused, and helps you move forward step by step.

Where proposals are reached, these can be recorded in clear, structured documents to reflect what has been discussed and agreed.

These documents can then be used as a basis for:

• independent legal advice, if required

• formalising arrangements through solicitors or the court

The mediator remains neutral throughout and does not give legal advice.

Family mediation for divorce and separation follows a clear, supportive structure designed to reduce overwhelm and help you feel that you know exactly where you are going at every stage.

It begins with an initial enquiry, followed by individual MIAM meetings so each of you has the space to talk things through privately. If mediation is suitable, joint sessions then take place at a pace that feels manageable, focusing on the issues that matter most to you – whether that’s children, finances, property or the whole separation.

Nothing is rushed and nothing is agreed until you both feel comfortable. Throughout the process, you’ll be guided step by step, with clear signposts about what happens next and time to reflect before moving forward.

​What Happens Next?

Once we receive your completed Participant Questionnaire, we will contact you to arrange your individual mediation information and assessment meeting.