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Divorce Consulting One-to-One

“There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” – CS Lewis

WHY CHOOSE DIVORCE CONSULTING?

INDIVIDUAL DIVORCE CONSULTING

PERSONAL SUPPORT JUST FOR YOU – one-to-one guidance through separation and divorce

 

Divorce can leave you feeling like the ground has shifted beneath your feet.  You may be asking:

“Who am I without this relationship?”
“What now?”
“How do I even begin to untangle all of this?”

There is no doubt that going through a separation or divorce is confusing and overwhelming.  Very often people struggle with their identity and working out who they are at the end of the relationship.

Perhaps your children are grown up or your spouse has already moved on.

A divorce consultant can help you to make sense of the world again and to find the right path through your journey.

A divorce consulting is non-judgemental but strong enough to let you know if you are going down a path that may lead to costly mistakes.

With clear guidance in place, you will be in a much better position to sort out the practical and financial issues arising out of your divorce and separation, rather than lashing out in the heat of the moment.

You will feel back in control and able to deal with all of the practical issues head-on.

HOW WOULD THAT FEEL?

 

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I am Cathy O’Mahoney, a non-practising solicitor, a professional mediator and a Divorce Consultant.

I have seen the devastation of family break-ups and, in my role as a solicitor, seen how people turn to their solicitors for emotional support as well as for legal advice. This is a very expensive strategy.

Divorce Consulting can help to sort out the wheat from the chaff and create a plan with you so that you can begin to sort out what your goals are moving on from separation.  This can help you to feel less overwhelmed and begin to see a light at the end of the tunnel.

Whether you’ve been considering separation for a while, are in the early stages of divorce, or are navigating life post-split — this service is designed specifically for individuals, not couples.

This is your space.
To think clearly.
To plan confidently.
To move forward one step at a time.

THIS IS NOT MEDIATION.  THIS IS NOT FOR BOTH OF YOU.

DIVORCE NICELY CAN SHOW YOU THE WAY

WHAT I CAN DO

 

  • Help you set realistic goals

 

  • Help you create a plan going through the divorce process

 

  • Help you navigate the process and prepare for each step of the way

 

  • Help you consider how best to sort out all of the practical issues arising out of your separation

 

  • Point you towards other professionals as and when necessary

 

  • Help you prepare for mediation if that is the process you are choosing with your ex

 

  • Help you feel empowered to make decisions

 

  • Help you consider the pros and cons of all options

 

  • Keep you on track when the going gets tough

 

  • Guide you through the financial forms

 

WHAT I CAN’T DO

 

  • Give legal advice

 

  • Decide any outcomes for you

 

  • Represent you in court

 

IMAGINE

 

  • Clarifying what you want to say in solicitor meetings and understanding what is being asked of you

 

  • Feeling emotionally steadier and better equipped to make decisions

 

  • Taking back control of your life and knowing you’ve got someone in your corner

 

  • Feeling ready to negotiate on an equal footing

THAT’S THE POWER OF HAVING SOMEONE ON YOUR SIDE JUST FOR YOU.