Advice and Guidance
If you are separating, thinking about separation, or already in the middle of it, you may be feeling completely overwhelmed and unsure where to start.
This Separation and Divorce Advice Hub is here to give you clear, practical information about family mediation, children arrangements, and sorting out finances after separation – based on my 19 years’ experience as a family mediator and my background as a non-practising solicitor.
I will be adding to this library over time, creating a growing collection of straightforward, trustworthy guidance to help you understand your options and make informed decisions.
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Money, Property & Pensions
Practical information about financial disclosure, property, pensions and reaching financial agreements.
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Is Family Mediation Cheaper Than Using Solicitors?
Is mediation cheaper than using solicitors? This article explains the real cost difference between mediation and legal routes, and why many people are surprised by how costs escalate.
Family Mediation: Not Just About Children
Family mediation isn’t just about children. Find out how it can also help you deal with finances, property and the wider practical issues of separation.
The Mediation Process
Learn how mediation works, what to expect from a MIAM and how mediation can help you move forward.
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Family Mediation Vouchers
Family Mediation Vouchers: How They Can Help You Move Forward If you’re separating or divorcing and worrying about costs, especially where children are involved, you may be wondering whether the family mediation voucher scheme could help. The good news is: they often...
What Is a MIAM?
What Is a MIAM and Do I Really Need One Before Going to Court? If you are separating or already separated and thinking about making an application to court about children or finances, you may have come across the term MIAM and wondered what it means - and whether you...
Important disclaimer
The information in these articles is for general guidance only and is not to be considered legal advice. Every family situation is different, and you should not rely on this information as a substitute for taking personalised advice about your own circumstances. Reading this article does not create a client relationship. If you would like advice about your own situation, you should seek independent legal advice or contact Divorce Nicely to discuss whether mediation or divorce consultancy may be suitable for you.