MIAM

When you feel ready, you can take the next step by clicking the button below to complete your participant questionnaire.  I will then be in touch to arrange your MIAM.

The court usually requires you to attend a MIAM before you submit your application for the following:

• Child arrangements

• Financial remedy or property matters

The meeting lasts up to an hour and takes place online via secure video.

Do I Need a MIAM Before Applying to Court?

In most cases, yes.

However, there are some important exceptions.

If you apply to court regarding:

• Where children will live or spend time

• Financial arrangements after separation

• Property division

You are expected to attend a MIAM before issuing your court application.

Are There Exceptions?

Yes. Certain circumstances allow you to apply to court without attending a MIAM. Where:

• Domestic abuse is present

• The matter is urgent

• There are safeguarding concerns

• The other person cannot be located

Even so, each situation is different.

I assess each situation individually to determine whether an exception applies.

I will discuss this with you during your MIAM.

What Happens During a MIAM?

The meeting is private and confidential.

Importantly, you will have space to:

• Explain your situation

• Ask questions

• Understand your options

• Explore whether mediation feels appropriate

• Discuss next steps

Above all, the meeting focuses on helping you make informed decisions.

You will not be pressured into mediation.  Instead, you decide whether mediation feels appropriate for you.

Mediation is voluntary.

If mediation is not suitable or not chosen, you will have a clear idea of other options.

Can I Get a MIAM Certificate For Court Without Mediating?

Yes.

For many clients, this is an important reassurance.

Attending a MIAM does not mean you must proceed with mediation.

Rather, it ensures you understand your options before taking further steps.

If mediation is unsuitable, declined, or the other person does not engage, a certificate can usually be issued.

Your certificate remains valid for four months from the date of your MIAM.

How Much Does a MIAM Cost?

MIAM Cost and Practical Information

• Weekday appointment: £137

• Online via secure video

• Duration: 45–60 minutes

• Individual meeting (not joint)

For clarity, payment is required before your appointment to confirm your booking.

I offer evening or urgent appointments on request, subject to availability.

If needed, I can discuss availability with you.

FEELING UNSURE?

If You’re Feeling Overwhelmed About Starting Divorce

Many clients attend a MIAM feeling:

• Unsure whether separation is the right decision

• Worried about finances or pensions

• Concerned about the family home

• Afraid of being pushed into court

You may recognise some of these feelings.

A MIAM is simply a starting conversation.

At this stage, nothing is final.

You are not committing to anything by attending a MIAM.

Nothing moves forward unless you decide it should.

That means you remain in control throughout.

My aim is to provide clarity – not pressure.

ABOUT YOUR MEDIATOR

Professional, Accredited Support

I am:

• An accredited Family Mediation Council mediator

• A non-practising solicitor

• Experienced in family law and mediation

• Focused on helping clients move forward calmly and constructively

In addition to my qualifications, I bring over 30 years of legal experience and nearly 20 years in mediation.

My approach is structured, even-handed, and practical.

I help you understand your options clearly, step by step.

Because of this, clients often feel clearer and more confident after their MIAM.